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Because if I wait until I “get it right,” it’ll never happen. 

Right? Because you want to be right. And I want to be right, too. Watch out for the tipping of the world, (much like my head) When no one wants to stand middle or left. 

I don't care what you did and what you do,

who you are, or who you screw.

All people.

All One.

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Reframing Our Family - Letter to My Child

Daddy and I have decided to change how we label our relationship. It has been evolving for almost 25 years now and we’ve long since been growing more as individuals than as a couple. Now we are going to declare the exchange of [the product sold to us as] prefabricated expectations for “marriage ” for [a better suited & chosen packaging,] self-defining “lifelong friends .” We are, as we have been your whole life, still your “parents” and each other’s “family” and that will nev

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There are demons on the backs of my eyelids, trying to convince me that there's no Home here. They're refreshed every time I blink and...

Ocean City ~OR~ "Ocean Shitty"

"There's a reason they call it Ocean Shitty," said a friend in a group conversation. I was right there and my friend was aware that my...

Why Read What I Write?

~A less than serious resumé~ Objective To show up as and for me, to support the experience of worthiness & wholeness in all humans....

Fly B*tch, Fly -- 1997 Poem

Mama I have failed you, I am disgustingly bloated. Everything I ate, Came up and floated.

Father: I am sorry, Thank you, I love you

I am sorry That you were consumed by your demons before I ever got to know you. I am sorry That you experienced discrimination and felt...

The So-Called Curriculum of Life

Personalized .... lining us up with tailor-made circumstances that help us see and unmistakably Know again, even if only for a moment. Yet...

The Good, The Bad & The Human

This revealing is inspired by Anne Lamott's quote: “Never compare your insides to everyone else's outsides.”

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